[Video] I'm quitting my job at Duolingo to go to a modern monastery


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  1. Chase HommeyerDecember 7, 2020 at 9:23 PM

    YES JULIA!! Thank you for sharing your fear and your joy and I share your excitement to see what happens to you! Write your life, girl! So inspired to see someone else making choices off the path...we need to all have your courage to do what scares you..if we want to make this world more loving and inhabitable for all. Thanks for doing this for yourself, you're inspirational <3

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    1. KishDecember 9, 2020 at 9:45 AM

      Thank you Chase <3 so much love to you and your journey!!!!!

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