[Video] Growing from existential crises / emotional breakdowns

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  1. The feeling of anxiety at Princeton – Julia's BlogDecember 14, 2018 at 7:28 AM

    […] and a form of aphantasia where I can’t relive past emotions (I briefly talked about this in my last video), and I’ve been feeling a lot of pre-nostalgia about my time at Princeton, so I want to record as […]

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